Monday 2 December 2013

Breaking the Silence

Besides seeing someone die from cancer the next worse thing I’I've seen with my own eyes was when I saw someone dying of AIDS. We were at a hospice in Northern Uganda and there was the most emaciated women laying on a mattress with a blank look on her face. Her cheekbones protruded through her thin skin. Her lips were pulled back making her teeth stick out abnormally. It would’would've only been days before she passed from this earth.


I’ve just started re-reading a book ‘The Price of Stones’ by Twesigye Jackson Kaguri.Here he describes how and why he started a free primary school for orphans of HIV/AIDS in Southern Uganda. I was given the book by him last year on our way to Kenya. It was so inspiring because many of the challenges we have (he is a Ugandan living in the US) in our work he also experienced. Beyond that though he expresses the devastation in his village from the pandemic of HIV/AIDS.
Jackson Kaguri

World AIDS Day is held on December 1st every year giving the world an opportunity to fight against HIV and support those living with the disease. It’s also an chance to remember those who have died.

The HIV/AIDS statistics for Kenya are quite staggering: 
  • Number of people living with HIV                       1,600,000
  • Adults aged 15 to 49 prevalence rate                  6.1%
  • Adults aged 15 and up living with HIV                 1,400,000
  • Women aged 15 and up living with HIV               820,000
  • Children aged 0 to 14 living with HIV                   200,000
  • Deaths due to AIDS                                          57,000
  • Orphans due to AIDS aged 0 to 17                     1,000,000


Here in Kenya it is still taboo to talk about HIV/AIDS, it is simply known as ‘being sick’. There are many voluntary counselling and testing centres (VCT’s) where they do HIV testing, treatment and care. Even though awareness of HIV and AIDS in Kenya is high, many people living with the virus still face stigma and discrimination. Studies have shown that although people are aware of the basic facts about HIV and AIDS, many are not informed of the more in-depth knowledge that addresses issues of stigma.
Those living with Hiv/Aids face stigma and discrimination

I have seen posters in school staffrooms stating ‘Don’t discriminate against a teacher just because they have HIV’. There is a long way to go in educating the public about this disease.

I’ve seen posters advertising a cure for HIV/AIDS by a local doctor. There are stories abounding that if you sleep with a virgin (or several of them) you can be cured. It seems to be easy to advertise about it but not talk about it.

The more we can talk about it the better informed we can be. We can do away with myths (http://www.webmd.com/hiv-aids/top-10-myths-misconceptions-about-hiv-aids) and instead be informed. We can help community groups and individuals act in a more educated way.

In our line of work (the development field) we meet many people who have HIV/AIDS. They would much rather live with silence on the matter than to have the stigma attached with it. They become prisoners of their condition and circumstances. They are worried they will be shunned by their family and friends so they say nothing. The silence is all they can hold on to.

This coming year we would love to hold separate forums for men and women on HIV/AIDS so that we can break the chains of silence. We want to see men, women and children free to be who they are. We live in a world that is broken, hurt and in pain. Our role as Afri-Lift is to take people by the hand and help them into the way of freedom.
Help us break the silence


Will you join us?

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